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Why Should I Be An Organ Donor?

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Our Kidneys and Why We Need Them?

Each day in the United States the National Kidney Foundation reports more than one million persons on the kidney transplant list.

A whopping 660,000 with kidney failure, 37 million with chronic kidney disease and 1 in 3 Americans are at risk for kidney disease!

Sadly many people will never get the call informing them that a donor organ is available for their use. An estimated 20 persons die each day for lack of donor organs. 

Our Kidneys and Why We Need Them?

The Human kidneys, shaped like two kidney beans lie against the back muscles of in the upper abdomen. They are located on the left and right sides of the back (flank) muscles with the right kidney ‘sitting’ a little lower than the left due the the size and shape of the liver.

Combined our kidneys contain about 1.2 million renal corpuscles that filter up to 1500 liters (400 US gallons) of blood daily. What a powerhouse!

It purifies the blood and removes toxins from the body. They control the water balance, regulates our electrolytes like, sodium and potassium and maintains homeostasis thus keep us alive.

The renal system aids in the breakdown some medications such as NSAIDS (non-steroidal anti inflammatory drugs) making it available for use by our bodies. One such example is advil. The kidneys excretes all these waste products in the form of urine.

What happens when our kidneys malfunction?

If our kidneys are not functioning at their optimum or not working at all, then the toxins from the break down of the various chemical process involved in keeping us alive will not be removed.

The toxins will remain in the body causing illness and death in a relatively short period of time.

When this happens the blood must be cleansed by artificial means.

Dialysis, using an external machine to ‘cleanse’ the blood is the next step. This process requires the creation of a ‘shunt’ which is created connecting an artery and a vein to be used for access to the circulatory system.


The process of dialysis greatly restricts a person’s activities of daily living. It’s a time consuming process that generally requires you to go to a dialysis center three days a week, up to eight hours at a time.  The toxins are removed by spending an average six to eight hours at a time.

After dialysis patients often report they felt like they had the stuffing knocked out of them. The body has been depleted and unfortunately no man-made processes will ever work as well as God’s, so it takes time to return to your norm. Then by the time you begin to feel better it’s time to repeat the process again.

Am I Too Young to donate?

Many states allow people who are younger than 18 to register as organ donors.

You are legally able to decide from the age of 18, but some final input may be required from your parent or legal guardian.

So discuss your wish to become an organ donor with your family, and ask for their advice. Keep in mind that many children too, are in need of organ transplants.

Am I Too Old to Donate?

You are not too old to donate, just inform of your desire to do so and let the medical professionals make the decision whether or not you are able to do so.

Do not discount organ donation because you think you are too old as there is no defined cutoff age for donating organs. The decision to use your donation is based on strict medical criteria, not age.

The idea of donating your organs may be an unpleasant one to grapple with. I must admit that I was not enamored with the idea myself. As humans we do not want to contemplate our own demise and the connotations that this idea brings to mind are not pleasant ones. But the truth is that organ donation saves lives.

If they know I’m a donor, will they just let me die so they can have my organs?

Some people are under the misconception that their medical treatment may no longer be a priority if they become donors, the medical staff will make every effort to save your life as is within their power to do so.

When you are ill medical personnel are required by moral and legal code of ethics to make every available effort to save your life first.

You will be seen by a doctor whose expertise most closely matches your particular condition and who can and will give you the best care possible.

If you are unsure of, or uncomfortable with your faith’s position on organ donation, ask a member of your clergy.

Even if your organs are not used for living recipients, they can be used in science to further medical understanding of many disease processes thereby making a greater impact.

Don’t deny yourself from the chance to help someone else. Let the doctors decide at the time of your death whether your organs and tissues are suitable for transplantation.

Being a Living Donor

If you decide to become a living donor, i.e. giving one of your kidneys to someone while you are still living you will have to undergo extensive psychological testing to ensure you are not being coerced into doing so.

This ensures that you are aware of the risks associated with your decision. Doctors will also test to see if your kidneys are in good shape and whether you can live a healthy life with just one kidney.

It’s critically important to consider becoming an organ donor if you belong to an ethnic minority. Minorities like African Americans, Asians, Pacific Islanders, Native Americans, and Hispanics are more likely than Caucasians to have certain chronic conditions that affect the kidneys, heart, lung, pancreas and liver. Some examples of such diseases are; alcoholism, high blood pressure and diabetes.

Certain blood types are more prevalent in ethnic minority populations. Because matching blood type is usually necessary for transplants, the need for minority organ donors is a ‘dire need’.

How to Register to Become a Donor

Becoming a donor is easy. Here are a few ways to indicate your wishes:

  • By registering on your State’s website.
  • Have it placed on your driver’s license. 
  • Inform your close family members.

If you have a loved one who will make decisions in the event you cannot make them for yourself, discuss your expectations with them and ensure that they understand and will honor your wishes.

So now that you have some of the facts, can you see that being an organ donor can make a big difference? and not just to one person? Organ and tissue from one donor can save or at best improve as many as 75 lives. Also knowing that your loved one helped save or improve the lives of many others may bring you some comfort.

What are your thoughts, please comment below. I would really love to know.

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The Unmistakable Beauty Of Nature

Beautiful Flower
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In response to Cee’s Flower of the day challenge

I love photography. I cannot resist a beautiful flower. I am especially enamored with the natural beauty of God’s world.

I hope you enjoy it!


So I am currently fully vaccinated. With the first dose, I felt like I had a watered-down version of COVID that lasted about three days. During that time I took some ibuprofen and that helped. The second dose, which just about 5 days ago I had a sore arm.

I will admit I was a tad scared as I still had antibodies from my bout with COVID last July. A few of my co-workers had more dramatic reactions to the vaccine. But all in all, I would say it was not as bad as I feared.


The constant wearing of masks is making me have so many break-outs. I have so much hyperpigmentation from acne, but there is no other recourse at this time. We must wear the mask.

I have begun using Retin-A again to help with accelerated skin turnover. I used it about 8 years ago for a while then forgot about it until now. Will construct a post about it especially when I have pictures to show you the improvement.

How are you all keeping out there? Is everyone fully vaccinated? Are you having skin issues from wearing masks? Let me know how you are dealing with them.

Stay safe and be blessed.

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Time Marches On

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Today I took my 16-year old daughter to the Department of Public Safety to obtain her learners permit.

I am happy for her. She is so excited to grow up and drive off both literally and figurately.

I am sad for me. Sad because she is growing up, eager to leave and spread her wings. Sad that I feel she will not longer be in a space where I can peek in know that she is safe and sigh in relief.

I am terrified of what all this could mean for her in ways that she is not yet aware. The many faces of humanity she will meet. The good, the bad and the indifferent while I will no longer be the balm that soothes the hurt away.

Terrified that she will venture into spaces I will not be invited into. Afraid she will endure hurts I may never know of.

She is unaware of the predators that lurk outside the safety of my arms. Predators that roam on two feet as well as four. Predators that cloak their evils in the persona of kindness and sanity.

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On the ride back I reiterate the benefits of following the law, making the correct choices, no alcohol and my own experiences and the reasons I chose do not indulge in mind-altering substances.

Those words I will undoubtedly repeat many times in the coming years, coupled with incessant prayers.

Spending sleepless nights as my imagination takes flight.

I trust the lessons taught will never be far from herGroei heart.

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So one day soon my baby girl will close the car door and drive off to the beginnings of a new life.

I will have to muster the strength to let her go as every other mother before me did. As my own mother allowed me to do.

I strengthened my wings and I flew off. I fell sometimes, other times I was knocked down. Some times I laid there for a moment trying to catch my breath. Other times I sprang to my feet with the agility of a Kung Fu master and went right back into the ring.

Sometimes I win and sometimes I lose.

Though one thing is certain I will remain defeated, I will always rise again.

It is said we learn best by watching and imitating. If these concepts hold true then my baby will persevere and soar on the lessons taught and the wings of a mother’s prayer.

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Not This Leg! How To Ensure The Correct Body Part Is Operated On

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A Story Told By Our Pediatrics Professor

Hello my WP family! How is everyone coping? Have you had your vaccines? How do you feel? Are you out and about?

Today’s post is inspired by Calmkate’s response to her story about where one may prefer to die.

So back during my nursing school days, one of my professors told us this story.

Her mother was to have surgery on her leg and had surrendered herself to the mercy of the hospital the previous evening. Her surgery would take place very early the following morning.

My Professor said as she laid in bed that evening a horrific thought crossed her mind.

What if the surgeons operated on the wrong leg? 

She began remembering all the stories of surgical mistakes she had ever heard. Stories of surgeries on the body part that was normal and leaving the diseased one intact.

So with the horrors fresh in her mind, she got out of bed and drove to the hospital to find her mother in bed. She took the marker we use in the hospital to write on the skin (it takes days to come off), and she wrote: “NOT THIS LEG”!

She stated she was not about to let them operate on the good leg.

We all had a nervous laugh about it at the time, but in reality, these things can and do happen. Processes are in place to prevent mistakes, but since to err is human … we can help them to ensure they operate on the “right” body part.

So yes, make a mark and let them know … “Not this leg”!

Be safe and be blessed!

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Bitter Melon - Much More Than A Strange and Bitter Fruit

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Bitter melon! 

A staple of my childhood. Though I could not appreciate its goodness until much later in life.

Back then I was not a fan of the taste.

It is bitter! 

But whenever my grandma cooked bitter melon or, anything else for that matter, you ate it without question.

There was no room for argument.


Bitter melon grew in abundance during my young years. There were several empty lots around the home I grew up in.

Bitter melon grows on a vine and, one side of the fence was always littered with the stuff.

It was everywhere!

No one ever actively planted the karela (bitter melon), it was as perennial as the grass around. It just was.

I would later come to understand that the ripe vegetables would shed their seeds. These seeds would be scattered by one way or another, so an effortless truce was in place. Karela was always in abundance.

My mother, God bless her love to drink the juice of karela and she does so to this day. She would steam the vegetable and drink the bitter juice.

The folks from my world were almost never ill, they died in a good old age with all their working parts.

Older and wiser

As I matured and became a healthcare professional I would wonder about my childhood and the health of the older population versus the sickness I see in the new world. I am in a unique position to observe the ills that plague the population old and young.

I began looking into the foods and activities I grew up with to see where some benefits may lie.

Bitter Melon

Bitter melon is an interesting fruit, it grows on a climbing shrub and is found in many parts of the world. The fruit is also found in tropical South America, Asia, East Africa, and the West Indies.

It is from a family known as Cucurbitaceae (bitter properties), scientifically called Momordica charantia. Karela has several known species.

Though bitter melon is a fruit, it is utilized as a vegetable in many parts of the world. It is also used as a traditional medicinal plant for the treatment of various diseases in Bangladesh as well as other developing countries like Brazil, China, Colombia, Cuba, Ghana, Haiti, India Mexico, Malaya, Nicaragua, Panama, and Peru.

Composition of bitter melon

Perhaps its most common traditional use is in the treatment of diabetes. Other diseases bitter melon is used to treat are; dysmenorrhea, eczema, emmenagogue (stimulate blood flow to the pelvis), galactagogue (promote lactation), gout, jaundice, kidney stone, leprosy, leucorrhea, piles, pneumonia, psoriasis, rheumatism, and scabies.

Momordica charantia is also documented to possess abortifacient, anthelmintic, contraceptive, antimalarial, and laxative properties.

Bitter melon extracts are effective against cancer and were found to be effective in the treatment of ulcers, pain and inflammation, psoriasis, dyslipidemia, and hypertension. 

Momordica charantia also contains biologically active chemical compounds such as glycosides, saponins, alkaloids, fixed oils, triterpenes, proteins, and steroids. Several other biologically active chemical constituents have so far been isolated from different parts of the plant, including the leaves, fruit pulp, and seeds.

Karela is reported to contain vitamins, minerals, antioxidants, and other phytochemicals, that is, glycosides, saponins, phenolic constituents, fixed oils, alkaloids, reducing sugars, resins, and free acids.

The immature fruits are also a great source of vitamin C, vitamin A, phosphorus, iron, and contain insulin-like properties.

Aids in the: — 

  1. The reduction of body fats prevents the hypertrophy of fat cells.
  2. Increases insulin secretion and prevents insulin-producing cells from damage
  3. It inhibits the increase of blood glucose levels.
  4. Decreases liver inflammation (prevents fatty liver).
  5. Promising as an antioxidant.
  6. Anti-infective properties.
  7. Helps fight against cancer.

The bitter fruit contains many essential vitamins and minerals, namely: —

  • Carbs
  • Fiber
  • Vitamin C
  • Vitamin A
  • Folate
  • Potassium
  • Zinc
  • Iron

How the bitter gourd may be prepared: — 

Bitter melon is sliced thin then prepared fried with various meats then eaten with rice. Another way is to have it stuffed with meats or vegetables.

When ripe the bitter melon takes on an orange color and becomes quite sweet. The ripened fruit may be used to make a drink which is quite delicious.

Bitter melon stuffed and cooked
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Bitter melon sliced thinly and cooked
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Now I will be the first people to tell you the bitter taste is an acquired one. But once you learn to appreciate its many splendors, bitter melon is to be enjoyed.

So, think of the health benefits …


Stay curious, while staying safe.

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Difficult to Separate — How Healthcare Clinicians Carry Their Patients With Them

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In a valley shadowed

Recently I had a patient that impacted me deeply. Not to say that many don’t make an impression, but some more so than others.

My patient was a 41 year old young woman who within the past 2-weeks had surgery to her neck. She presented to the ER some days ago with her husband due to nausea and vomiting.

Often post-surgical patients can have nausea and vomiting due to many reasons. The pain medication as well as the pain itself are among some of the reasons why patients may experience nausea and vomiting.

Though upon further investigation we realized that she had been suffering with nausea, vomiting and headaches for many weeks prior to her surgery. This was thought to be symptoms related to her neck issues that would correct themselves after surgery.

She was acting very sedate and somewhat withdrawn. Usually cervical (neck) patients patients are often discharged the same day as the surgery and do very well.

I also noticed the way she let her hand just kind of stayed where I placed it and her fingers has a mild inward curling quality to them suggestive of cerebral injury . There seemed to be a lack of self concern and in the way she appeared emotionally detached from the present inconsistent with a person of her age.

She complained of a headache and consistent nausea. She had been taking nausea medication at home that did nothing to alleviate her symptoms. She denied any pain to her neck.

The doctor and I discussed the fact that she may have taken too much pain medication per her demeanor but when we requested some urine, she stated she did not know if she could urinate.

So we discussed getting a CT of her head and one was ordered along with images of her neck to rule out any post-operative problems.

Well the report revealed some distressing news.

A tumor of the brain. Could be a glioblastoma!

More follow up testing for confirmation and then we would have to transfer her to another hospital for follow up care.

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While she was having the MRI of the brain done, I went over to give her some nausea medication. The radiology tech showed me some of the images already taken and the tumor was clear to see.

We felt a palpable distress for this young woman.

The doctor and I had discussed the diagnosis and the prognosis. She told me of a colleague’s husband who had had a resection for glioblastoma and was doing well now some 2 years later.

We felt some hope.

As I walked back through the radiology depart toward my home in the ER, I said a quick prayer, “Dear God, please let this young woman be okay!”

The next workday the ER doctor gave me an update on the patient. The neurologist updated the ER doctor that a biopsy had confirmed she had glioblastoma and it was inoperable. He also said the patient was so confused.

We were filled with sadness for this lady and her family.


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Glioblastoma is the most aggressive tumor of the brain. It is one of the most deadly types of brain cancer.

A glioblastoma may occur at any age, though they usually occur after the age of 40 years. There is a peak incidence between the ages of 65 and 75 years.

They occur more frequently in males with a ratio of 3:2 M:F and Caucasians are affected more other ethnicities.

The current standard of care, inclusive of consisting of surgery, radiation and chemotherapy is quite simply ineffective.

 The survival rate of a person diagnosed with a glioblastoma is about 15 months.

Without treatment, survival rate is approximately 3–6 months. Though radiation and chemotherapy may prolong life, they greatly reduce quality of life. With this reduction in quality some patients decide against treatment to spend their remaining time the way they choose with their family.

Research has found that each glioblastoma is different and developing drug therapies must be focused to treat each occurrence individually.

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The Temporal Lobe

The temporal lobes aids the processing of speech and sound. It is also vital to the comprehension of language and speech.

Another primary role of the temporal lobes is in processing memory and emotion. The limbic structures of the temporal lobes are responsible for regulating emotions and the forming and processing of memories.

Patients with temporal horn injury may present in several ways:–

  • with focal neurological deficits
  • exhibiting symptoms of increased intracranial pressure, e.g., confusion.
  • may have seizures
  • headaches
  • vomiting
  • nausea

Treatment and prognosis

The treatment for glioblastoma includes:

  • Surgery to remove the glioblastoma. Your neurosurgeon will remove the the glioblastoma if it is possible and beneficial to do so. Because glioblastoma grows into the normal brain tissue, complete removal is not possible. For this reason, therapy will include additional modalities focused to target the remaining cells.
  • Radiation therapy. Radiation uses high-energy beams, such as X-rays or protons, to try and kill the cancer cells. During therapy, beams deliver radiation to precise points in your brain.
  • Radiation combined with chemotherapy. For people who can’t undergo surgery, radiation therapy and chemotherapy may be used as a primary treatment.
  • Chemotherapy. Chemotherapy uses drugs to kill cancer cells. In some cases, thin, circular wafers containing chemotherapy medicine may be placed in your brain during surgery. The wafers dissolve slowly, releasing the medicine and killing cancer cells.
  • Drug Therapy. Chemotherapy as a pill form known as temozolomide (Temodar) — is used during and after radiation therapy.
  • Tumor treating fields (TTF) therapy. TTF uses an electrical field to disrupt the ability of the tumor cells’ to multiply.
  • TTF may be combined with chemotherapy may be recommended after radiation therapy.
  • Targeted drug therapy. Targeted drugs focus on specific abnormalities in cancer cells that allow them to grow and thrive. Targeted therapy prevents collateral blood vessel formation to feed cancer cells.
  • Supportive (palliative) care. Palliative care is specialized medical care that focuses on providing some relief from pain and other symptoms.

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We care for patients every day. We do our best and often think of them and wonder how they are doing. Many times I have come home with a patient on my mind and cannot wait on the next day to get an update. Sometimes I do not wait and call my peers for an update.

Many we will soon forget.

There are however those who will always stay with us. You wish you could do more, help more, heal more…

You feel helpless and very human.

You feel sad, defeated and eventually hopefully you will reconcile that you are only human, incapable of really changing the outcome. All you can do is your job to the best of your abilities.

It is within your power to be empathetic, supportive then you must let go and let God.

The final decision is always his.

Emotionally there will always be those who remain with you, you will always recall specific details and you will always feel a little sad and helpless when they are called into remembrance.

Please pray for our patient.

Be safe and be well.

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International Women’s Day

God made women on the 6th Day because He knew then He could rest on the 7th

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Today is International Women’s Day!

One day to celebrate womanhood, a day to celebrate our formidable strength of spirit and our resilience.

One day to celebrate our steadfast perseverance, our hearts, our souls, our ability to love ourselves and all others.

Our ability to love and instinctively emulate the essence of our creator — God, the Father.

Let us continue to stand proud, tall, poised, and bold as the brave women that came before us. We stand upon the sweat blood and tears of their toils and THAT we must never take for granted.

We stand strong upon the fervent prayers of generations of mothers.

We are blessed beyond measure, we are loved and highly favored by God. In his wisdom, he created women, for what would the world be without us in it?

Though we have come a long way — we have yet so very far to go…

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I salute you, women of the world!

Happy International Women’s Day!

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Social Distancing Ends in Texas

A man and a woman with a mask
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My mind has been urging me to write on this new atrocity for the past two days as I became aware of the news but I seemed unable to muster the words or the energy to do so.

Governor Abbott decided to end pandemic restrictions within the state of Texas. As of next week, the mandate will be lifted and Texans will be free to move about mask-less.

Restaurant occupancies will return to 100%. This move is made especially dire as this move comes on the eve of spring break.

No one needs reminding that we are still waist-deep in the throes of the pandemic. And the percentage of Texans vaccinated is a mere 13%. The lowest percentage of any state in the US according to NPR news.

The President, CDC, as well as many other medical professionals, have condemned the move urging Texans to keep wearing masks and to continue social distancing.

I can tell you from personal experience that many Texans were not wearing masks or social distancing even when it was a mandate. Each day persons would show up to the hospital, the stores, or other public spaces without a mask on their face, one under their nose, under their chins, or just a plastic shield that is open on both sides.

A shield protects the wearer from fluids or droplets splashed directly to the front of your face, it provides no protection from airborne or droplet precautions as it is open on both sides.

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Many eligible Texans have not been vaccinated nor do they have a clue when they may be vaccinated.

There have been many reports that the most vulnerable populations still facing many challenges trying to schedule an appointment.

Apparently even getting through to many sites to even schedule an appointment requires so much time, skill, and manpower that many are unable to continuously remain online or simply do not have the means to even go online.

My 73-year old mother nor any other eligible persons with clear co-morbidities, some with several qualifying factors have not been vaccinated.

My co-worker’s husband is well into his 60’s, he is diabetic, suffers from gout, has a history of cancer, high blood pressure and they have not secured an appointment to be vaccinated.

So how then are we no longer required to adhere to the rules that have kept some of us safe thus far?

The Houston Chronicle Abbott as saying, “Too many small business owners have struggled to pay their bills,” — “This must end. It is now time to open Texas 100 percent.”

You should note that the Governor has been fully vaccinated…

We can clearly see where the concern lies, not preserving lives but the quest to fatten the pockets. Nowhere in that declaration was the loss of life addressed!

This kind of reckless management only seems to exist in Texas! When the pandemic was in its infancy with regard to social distancing Texas was the first to shed its cloak of protection. This resulted in a spike in COVID cases and many deaths.

Two weeks ago the world again saw that Texas plays by its own rules with the winter stop that left roads impassable, widespread blackouts and Texans froze to death while laying in their beds.

Truly tragic.

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Why are we repeating the same action at an even worse time while hoping for a different result?

It seems that the concern to fatten the pockets outweigh the loss that will surely be visited upon us.

I am persuaded that by now individuals have been practicing these safety measures for almost a year and that they will continue to do so. More of us will continue to wear our masks, practice hand hygiene, and social distancing.

 Until more widespread vaccinations have been done and COVID numbers have declined for a consistent number of months, we will choose the path of proven science and commonsense.

Stay safe and stay well.

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Everything is Bigger in Texas

A shipping boat caught on a rock
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I thought the image of this boat says what seems to have become the norm in my time and space.

We had a couple of sunny days in Texas, a matter of fact it was 70°. There is a bit of coolness to the air but we are no longer in the deep freeze.

They say everything is bigger in Texas, I guess that applies to the extremes in temperatures as well.

Last week -3° with snow and ice, today 70° and sunny. Where did I hear that global warming was not real?

Another thing that is bigger in Texas is the reported electrical bills some have received, the rest of us are waiting and afraid to exhale. Since Texas always plays by its own set of rules, we saw widespread blackouts, destruction, and even death during the past week’s deep freeze.

With everything we are all dealing with currently, let’s add another item to the mess.

We did appreciate the sunny days.

Then yesterday the cool weather returned and last night’s thunderstorm was complete with hail (small). So Texas is hitting one extreme to another.


What have I been up to lately?

My mom and my aunt, and I have been tinkering with a couple of Etsy shops, making food items, and crafts from their native land. Surprisingly it has garnered some attention.

I have begun making two items from my childhood, Fudge and Sugar cake. These were items I made growing up with my friend and I thought I had lost the touch for good fudge-making, but to my delight, I seem to have retained the skill.

Last night I even dreamed of opening my very own fudge shop!

Sugar cake by Author

The above images are various colors by somehow my camera had a reddish hue.

Sugar cake image by AuthorAnother version of the sugar cake. You can add various flavors as in fudge.

Lemon-Flavored Fudge by Author

I have been creating a few different options for fudge

Regular brown sugar fudge by Author


Vanilla marshmallow fudge — by Author

The Etsy shops are:  and In case your curiosity gets the better of you.

Somehow I have really been in a writer’s slump. Though there is a lot of noise in my head, I cannot stay still long enough to organize them. So I have been getting a little creative with my daughter, my mother, and my aunt.

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Gives my mom something to do as well, she worked until COVID kept her out of the workforce, so now she has a little outlet. My daughter has been making her jewelry and selling on a site that the young folks frequent.

My mom made these as a young girl, so did I as well. Growing up we made what was known as “Rag mats”.  Now a lost art, the younger folks no longer make any of these things.

A bit sad really!


I have been indulging my sweet tooth waaay too much with the sugary desserts I have been making.

That’s all to report from my corner of the world for now.  Be safe be well.

How is everyone coping with life?  How have you been keeping busy and relieving stress?

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We Are Holding On


Winter Storm 2021

Recently we have been hit with some extreme temperatures. Cold temps with combined wind chill factors of -3° F. It has been cooold in these parts.

We were ill-prepared.

The rolling black outs left us dressed like we lived on the North Pole. Three days and nights without electricity, internet and the ability to stay warm.

I was bored stiff.

For some like myself it was the intermittent electricity and heat. For many others it was total blackout  where people were completely left out in the cold unable to keep their children warm or even fed.

The power situation has left the food spoiling at an alarming rate when many are already facing a dire financial situation and hunger is already too real for so many.

Imagine the horror of watching what little food you have go bad.

A parents’ nightmare.

I have an electrical stove, so with the power gone, that stove is rendered useless. That meant we had to be ready for action, as soon as the power came on in 30-minute increments, you quickly cooked some ramen noodles or heated some water.

Like clockwork the power was cut off way to soon and immediately the house would be plunged into gelid temperatures.

2021 Texas Storm
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Texas snow Storm 2021
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The barren whiteness of the outdoors reminded me so much of those Alaska shows I love watching. Suddenly it seemed I was living outside the grid, lol.

A lot more fun as an observer.

2021 Snow StormImage by Author

Snowy Texas StormImage by Author

What the past year have brought to the forefront are the deficits within our systems.

We are ill prepared for any extreme circumstances that last beyond a day it seems.

How in this day and age we are unable to supply adequate power to our customers.

The winter storm while not the norm in Texas was still expected. Yet the roads are not (never) prepared and driving was a nightmare. As evidenced by the 133 car pile-up of last week that left several persons dead or injured.

I spent many an anxious hour on those words trying to get to work and home safely.

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The roads were much better yesterday after the second deposit of snow. We were able to drive and the constant stream of traffic left a nice dry trail in the center on most of the common roadways.


On Sunday and Monday the drive was rife with dry snow blowing everywhere, icy conditions that left the weary white-knuckled traveler trudging along at  17 – 23 mph.

Nerves frayed to the breaking point as we struggled to remain vigilant as we constantly reminded ourselves not to instinctively slam on our brakes.

I drove with God’s words reminding me that He manages my going out and my coming in.

I think we have made it through the worse, now back to the times of COVID and the continued work of vaccinations.

Stay safe and stay dry.

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The Source

A man encased in light from the sky
Photo by Ralph (Ravi) Kayden on Unsplash

Whenever pain and distress find me, I return to the source that is thee…


Today’s Dallas, TX Weather

As of 8:24 am CST

1% chance of snow through 9 am

Winter Storm Warning

Driving in this kind of weather requires a lot of prayers. Usually hot, the south remains under siege.
Stay safe, stay well.